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  • Jun. 2nd, 2008 at 8:42 AM
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Noooooooooo!!! Got a sudden keyboard problem that caused me to erase all my entry. :( :( Bose!!!!

So what was I saying?

The situation with my best friend: it's not working anymore, and I don't know what to do. We've always been different, but we managed to get along because our personalities somewhat matched. Then we went off to university -different ones- and I don't know what happened, we both went through extreme changes. I became firmer on my beliefs (moving out of my parents, I realized I was an adult and therefore allowed to have values of my own even if it didn't march theirs) and she has become everything I'm against. Those of you who know me know how I hate superficiality and everything that goes into the realm of what I call pinkiness. And that's just the beginning of it I don't want to get into the whole thing. But here's the picture: can one really be friends with someone that has completely opposed values? Is it completely insane for me to think that it might be time to end it?

I don't want to make the same mistake twice. Once I ended a friendship for the wrong reasons, made sure there was no coming back once I did and now I regret it. But was that different? When I did that, I was all emo and depressed (and a bit immature), couldn't take what I was feeling and went out the easy way. So what is different now? I'm not emo and depressed first off and there are no feelings involved, I just feel very logically that this is not working. And I think I need to be with people more like me now. Still, I'm confused. We've been friends for a long time, we did share some good moments, but now...

Advice anyone???

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[info]ayana_eamane wrote:
Jun. 2nd, 2008 02:39 pm (UTC)
Eeh, can understand you... My best friend has changed a lot as well and now we're not in that good friendship we used to be.. That's hard and I'm still sometimes trying to revive those relations but it kinda doesn't work... When ppl begin to be (if I can say so) far away from each other they keep away doesn't matter if they want it or not. Though, if they both do want to keep their friendship I guess it can work, doesn't matter if they're different or not...
IMHO, of course :)
[info]linwe_eowyn wrote:
Jun. 2nd, 2008 05:33 pm (UTC)
Yeah I know what you mean. Like I have a lot of long distance friends and it's been great, so I thought it would be the same with her. I thought things would not be different, but she changed so much it's crazy. I guess I'll try to keep it together a while longer and see how I feel.
[info]ayana_eamane wrote:
Jun. 2nd, 2008 05:36 pm (UTC)
Yeah it's different indeed when you have friends who have always been far away and when you have a friend who has always been near and then left... And I agree that you should see how you feel with this situation before doing something :)
[info]megsari wrote:
Jun. 2nd, 2008 09:45 pm (UTC)
Me and my best friend (since birth, eep!) were like that... when we were young it didn't matter if we were different, but then we grew apart and I just couldn't stand how she was. I never said it, obviously, but we just got to the point where it wasn't fun because there was no common ground. I really regret that now, because at the end of the day, we should've just grown past those differences. Now we don't have any contact it barely seems like it would matter any more :(
[info]linwe_eowyn wrote:
Jun. 2nd, 2008 09:48 pm (UTC)
The same is kind of happening here. I can be out of contact with her for a while and I won't even notice. Anyway I think I'll try to go past the differences for now and see how it goes.
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